Life Flourishes through Belief and Action
Prof. Abdullah Abu Sayeed is the founder of Biswa Shahitta Kendra (World Literature Center), which aims to cultivate a love for literature and human values especially amongst the youth through exposure to great literature. He is also a popular and respected TV personality, environmentalist and activist. Prof. Sayeed has won many awards for his outstanding contribution to society, including the 97th Ramon Magsaysay Award in Journalism, Literature and Creative Communication Arts. He was present as the key speaker in Quantum Open Ideas on July 19 2005.
Rabindranath Tagore says in one of his poems,
“ I think, in this world, the good outweighs the bad.
For every 43 who are bad, 57 are good.”
I believe this completely. There will always be the 43 who are bad. Without them, our lives would become stagnant. Because there is evil we are continuously striving to change ourselves, to make ourselves better. But human beings can never be content with 57; they have to reach 100. And that is where the power of positivity comes into play. Those who make positive choices can turn this 57 into a 100 and move forward.
Every inch, every particle of the civilization we live in has been created with positivity. Negativity has created nothing.
There is a mango tree in front of the Biswa Shahittya Kendra. One day, I found a group of boys sitting under the tree and renouncing the world. According to them, there isn't a single good person in the world. Everyone is bad. I went to them and said, “ It seems as if all the good people have left the world. Only you have survived. You are the best. So the responsibility to be good is yours. If you waste your time criticizing others, what good will it do?”
Criticizing others is a great sin. I think those who criticize others, break their hearts and destroy their hopes are equally as bad as those who do bad things. I think only losers criticize. They have nothing to do. So they can't tolerate the actions of others and try to destroy them. This is negative mentality. The truth is when someone criticizes others he puts a knife through his own chest. He destroys his own strength.
We never think of how much a little appreciation or a little recognition can do for someone. And we don't need much to do that. A little love, respect and affection are enough.
Now that we are an independent country we need to change. If we give people love instead of hurting them, give them respect and encouragement instead of insulting them, then I believe Bangladesh will become one of the greatest nations on earth. Because we are really sharp. Our ability to generate ideas is exceptional. It used to be said, “What Bengal thinks today, the rest of India thinks tomorrow.” The day when we have a strong system of law and order is not very far off. I think twenty years from now we will be a just Bangladesh, a Bangladesh that can only go forward.
When, after the language movement, I expressed my interest in studying Bangla, my family became very upset. To them, the only worthwhile goal was being a CSP (a civil servant). Back then, CSPs were like princes, meaning the princesses and half of the kingdom was theirs to take. So my family objected. But then my father said, “Within each of us is another man. If you dive deep into your own being and listen carefully, you can hear him speak. Ask him what you should do, and do exactly what he tells you. In that world, you have no parents, friends or relatives. You are alone. Alone like a king.” My father's words moved me deeply.
Later I realized that kings are truly alone because two people can never sit on the same throne. The two thousand miles of the Himalayas can accommodate thousands of people, but two people cannot be on the very top of Mt. Everest at the same time. One needs to climb up first. That is why Sir Edmund Hillary and Tenzing Norgay could not step onto the peak at the same time. Because Tenzing climbed up first, he is recognized as the first person to climb Mt. Everest. The Bible says you have to go to the top of the hill alone. It is true. The person who goes alone, overcoming all obstacles to find the way, will go forward. And history remembers him.
To me, human life is an amazing thing. I can't understand how we got this thing called life. We have to study for 16 to 25 years just to get a job. Even then we need to write applications, face interviews and what not. But without any effort, any qualifications, any test, we received a life filled with unbelievable joy, beauty and light. I wrote about how beautiful life could be in one of my books: a sweet as big as the Garo Hills, filled with juicy sweetness. For an ant in that sweet, life is pure bliss. Life is like that to me. It is a sin to waste even one moment of life. It is a crime to be depressed for one second.
If we complain about not getting enough recognition after being born in this beautiful world, then that would be ungrateful. Recognition does not mean getting a medal. An artist sings a song. At the end of his song, the hall is resplendent with a thunderous applause.That is recognition for the artist
We started the Biswa Shahitta Kendra with only 35 taka. Not with the hope of getting recognition, but for the joy of building enlightened human beings. In this way I stayed immersed in my work like a mad man, like someone moonstruck, passing my life like someone obsessed. One time, we had accumulated so many books that they filled my house. The architect began to think that the house would collapse. To me, formal recognition pales in comparison to this joy.
Like that ant, we can enjoy every moment of life. We have to use every moment. Fill up our lives with achievements. We have this guilt and hesitation about wanting things. We think wanting things makes us crude materialistic people. We don't understand that unless we have things, how can we give to others, how can we make the world beautiful and prosperous? Can a beggar give alms to another beggar? Only one who has something can give something. So our pursuit should be to earn things. Our tendency is to refuse. But the Holy Upanishad warns us again and again,ten takten bhunjita, we have to get through giving and give through receiving.
But we do need to set a boundary on the things we want and know why we want them. A person who does not have a single taka can sleep on a footpath or under a tree without any worries. But a person who has a hundred taka wouldn't be able to do that; he would at least need a thatched house. A person with a hundred thousand taka will need a concrete house, and a billion taka will need a fort with cannons on all four sides. This means that as our wealth increases, so too does our insecurity and restlessness. All of us have to suffer the consequences of crossing our limits.
Today, the control and responsibility of the nation is in our hands. Whatever we want will happen. But a person needs to be clear about why he will live and why he will work. Only then will he be able to move forward. The only thing we need is to believe that we can. There is a very nice sentence in the Bible, “He who liveth, he who believeth, shall never die.” He who believes, lives. No sadness or impurity can touch the person who has been able to immerse himself in his beliefs and his work. Work has its own kind of joy. For example, if we are successful in 20 things in one day, then we get 20 joyful moments. In one month he gets 600, in a year 7200. If a person lives 60 years, he has lived in a world of joy swimming in an ocean of half a million joyful moments.
If we want to immerse ourselves in work, we have to keep our dreams in front of us. Sometimes we think a dream is just an imaginary thing. That is not true. A dream is very real. Your dream is your destination, the place where you want to go. When people see the insecurity, suffering and restlessness around them, they dream of changing it. They keep on working towards their goal tirelessly. When Rasulullah (pbuh) saw the corruption, the injustice and the anarchy all around him, he dreamt of freeing the people. When Ishwar Chandra Vidyasagar saw how the widows in India were
suffering, he came forward to help them.
So let us look around us and work towards freeing people from suffering and deprivation. In this way, we will burn bright like a candle while shedding light all around us. We will be able to enjoy our life in all its fullness.